as a little tl;dr what happened: the server where the fedi instance on femdom.solutions was hosted on corrupted itself somehow and, well, it’s unclear if the admins even made backups, considering how one of them reacted when I asked if backups were made.
so yea, for now (while I’m looking for a new home on fedi again), I’m back on crimew.gay. even managed to copy my bio across. :3c
edit: just got the confirmation that backups don’t exist. well, there goes a great domain to waste (for fedi use).